CHANGE YOUR RELATIONSHIP.

CHANGE YOUR RELATIONSHIP.

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IF THE TWO OF YOU COULD LIVE OUT YOUR DAYS RELAXING POOLSIDE AT A RESORT…

without any responsibilities, you’re confident you could be the perfect partner…

IF THE TWO OF YOU COULD LIVE OUT YOUR DAYS RELAXING POOLSIDE AT A RESORT…

without any responsibilities, you’re confident you could be the perfect partner…

BUT LIFE ISN’T LIKE THAT: WITH WORK, KIDS, ELDER CARE, AND EVERYTHING ELSE ON YOUR PLATE, YOUR BRAIN & BODY ARE ALWAYS UNDER STRESS.

Sooner or later, you’re in survival mode—and science says that even a tiny difference in opinion can seem like a threat at that point. Hello, conflict!

Image of book tile logo, 'Til stress do us part by Elizabeth Earnshaw

won’t let you off the hook for how you behave when you’re stressed.

Instead, it gives you a roadmap for managing your response to stress so that you can be the loving, collaborative partner you set out to be.

WITHIN ‘TIL STRESS DO US PART, YOU’LL DISCOVER

YOUR GUIDEBOOK

  • The physiological effects of stress and how that trickles down to the way you communicate with your spouse

  • Strategies for self-soothing and regulating your stress, even in the face of crisis

  • Concrete steps to protect your boundaries, so you can head off stressful situations at the pass

  • The concept of radical responsibility and how to stop martyring yourself for things that don’t mean that much to you

  • Advice on making the difficult shift from resentment and toward compassion

  • Insights into why we’re perpetually stressed, from ingrained stereotypes and 24/7 Slack pings to the comparison machine that is social media

Image of book tile logo, 'Til stress do us part by Elizabeth Earnshaw

won’t let you off the hook for how you behave when you’re stressed.

Instead, it gives you a roadmap for managing your response to stress so that you can be the loving, collaborative partner you set out to be.

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(And grab your pre-order bonuses HERE!)

READ THE REVIEWS

  • Vulnerable, practical and insightful, Till Stress Do Us Part is the essential guide for how to deal with the most pressing issue in our relationships. Liz Earnshaw gives readers an inside look at how stress and the mental load negatively impact our relationships using her own life as an example, along with those of other couples. I couldn't put this book down and I cannot wait to recommend it to all my clients.

    Amanda White
    LPC, Therapist and Author of Not Drinking Tonight

  • Elizabeth Earnshaw tackles the burden of stress on relationships with relatable stories from her own life and the lives of her clients alongside clear strategies for overcoming the overwhelm. A must read!

    Eve Rodsky
    Author of NYT Bestseller Fair Play

  • Funny, relatable, and beyond wise! If relationships came with a guide, this book would be it. Not only does Liz unpacks the way stress impacts our relationships, but what to do about it.

    Dr. Sara Kuburic
    Author of It’s On Me

ELIZABETH EARNSHAW, MA, LMFT, CGT IS A COUPLES THERAPIST, AUTHOR, PODCASTER, WIFE & MOM. AND SHE’S IN THE TRENCHES EVERY DAY, RIGHT ALONGSIDE YOU.

MEET ELIZABETH

In addition to her own couples therapy practice, Elizabeth regularly teaches & writes about what it takes to make relationships work, one day at a time.

Elizabeth is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Gottman Therapist, and Clinical Fellow of The American Association of Marriage & Family Therapy. She founded A Better Life Therapy, which offers weekend intensives as well as regular therapy, all with the aim of making therapy more accessible to busy couples.

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  • Liz Earnshaw’s latest book Til Stress Do Us Part is a ground-breaking exploration of the impact of stress on relationships. Liz’s compassion and vulnerability make this book a must read for all of us who are looking to protect our intimate partnerships from a very real threat. I will be recommending this book to clients and students for many years to come.

    Alexandra H. Solomon
    PhD, faculty at Northwestern University, bestselling author of Love Every Day, and host of the podcast, Reimagining Love

  • Til Stress Do Us Part, an insightful book on managing stress within marriage, is a game-changer! It provides practical solutions with a positive approach, making it an invaluable resource for couples navigating life's challenges. It is a must-read for anyone seeking a healthier and happier relationship.

    Nedra Glover Tawwab
    NYT Bestselling Author of Set Boundaries, Find Peace and Drama Free

Her first book, “I Want This To Work,” is an inclusive guide to navigating all-too-common issues in modern relationships. She writes a regular newsletter, The Balancing Act, and she’s often asked to talk about relationships for media outlets such as The New York Times, Mind Body Green, and others.

Elizabeth lives outside of Philadelphia with her husband, two children, and her labradoodle Teddy. In her downtime, you’ll find her rearranging her house, reading books that make her cry or scare her, and just sometimes lying in bed alone (her favorite form of self-care).

Behind the doors of therapists’ offices all across America, couples just like you are saying the same thing. Your personal history has shaped how you handle stressful situations.

But the stress responses that got you where you are today aren’t always conducive to loving, productive communication with your partner—especially in the moments when you don’t see eye-to-eye.

In ‘Til stress Do Us Part, Elizabeth Earnshaw helps you examine how you respond to stress and why you respond that way. Then she shows you the tools you need to get out of a physiological stress state and into a space of less conflict—and less chaos.

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Along the way, she shares research-backed insights on stress, alongside relatable stories from her clients and her own life.

It’s an essential handbook for bridging the gap between the partner you are now, and the partner you aspire to become.

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WHAT ANIMAL ARE YOU IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP?

QUIZ

When it comes to how you respond to stress, are you a cobra, an opossum, or a deer? This quiz will give you the answer—and tell you how that shows up when conflict arises.

TRACK YOUR CONFLICT

AN INTERACTIVE STRESS-LEVEL TRACKER

Set up weekly check-ins with your partner about your stress, and track your day-to-day stress to find your “pain points.” You’ll even receive a script to ease you into that first weekly check-in.

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